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« Reply #465 on: August 14, 2008, 09:12:34 AM »

Yeah that seems about right. The fun part is by the time the law is passed over here I'll be 18 so i'll be okay ^_^

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« Reply #466 on: August 14, 2008, 03:12:49 PM »

I'm having troubles guys. D:

and everyone knows the best place to turn for love advice is the internet. yeah. right.
Densha Otoko is fiction, guys.

jkjk I love you all~

so~

>////>

well okay, first of all, I"ll start off with my not-so-romantic problem. A guy keeps harassing me on mangabullet D: and worst of all, it was me that initiated it. :I But it's not like I just want to tell him to stop, because I still want to be friends... so I need a tactful way to handle the situation. >.> I'm pretty sure that one I can deal with on my own.
(btw he is a gay crossdresser and we have strange ukeXuke conversations....)

ANYWAY

I just wanted to mention that.

But seriously, I ... have a crush. (dun dun DUN)
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but the worst part is, I don't actually know him well. >___<;; I first met him at Ohayocon, and I've seen him at every convention since. He is amazingly cute (with beautiful blue eyes and long eyelashes~ he also has really nice skin <3) and he's also quite funny. ^^ I know he loves Gurren Lagann as much as me because I've only seen him in a Kamina cosplay... xD He is incredibly sweet too... But I have no idea who he is or how old he is or anything... :(
So I'll probably just wait for the feeling to go away, and just be friends with him at conventions. :3 (If only stuff like dramacon happened in real life! D:)
lol the first time I met him was (like I said) at Ohayocon... and it was somewhat awkward because I asked to hug him and I think I might have for too long... but I was in Asuka cosplay and he says he can't see out of his Kamina glasses anyway... so I guess it's fine. :3

oh, and I have pictures of us if you'd like~ >:3

I'm wanting to stalk him.... but I don't know him on any forums except the convention ones... :(

I've been talking to a girl on dA because she is having the exact same problem with a *different* Kamina coslayer. Except she's had more luck in stalking him. xD

advice? xD
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« Reply #467 on: August 14, 2008, 04:11:05 PM »

Next time you see him at a convention, ask him for his msn or myspace/whatever,
talk to him, ask where he's from and stuff like that. Tongue

Also, have you tried googling his nick from the convention forums?
Some got really unusual nicks that give some direct hits there, so you might be able to find his msn or something. Tongue


I'm a master at finding (stalking) girls Ive met IRL on the Internet. lol
Msn is a great tool when it comes to lurv~ and getting to know each other without all the awkwardness.. Tongue
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« Reply #468 on: August 14, 2008, 04:35:03 PM »

it's amazing what google can find Evil
especially if you've got an email address or something.
it can even find full names, if they aren't that common.

as for the other guy.. idunno o_O
you could start not answering some of his messages, cool things down.
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« Reply #469 on: August 14, 2008, 05:49:42 PM »

well, his username on the acen forums is Lord Kamina, so... I can't really find much... '3' He doesn't have his msn listed and his email is private D:

I'll just wait... until january *cries* that's half a year until I can see him again~ ;_____; unless by some miracle he turns up at Matsuri con next weekend...

he must live somewhat near me. :/ He goes to every convention I do...
and he knows Kala. at least a little...

darn it~ stalking him is more difficult than expected :(

I wonder if he would be at Sugoicon? :/ I need to get this guy's msn... maybe Keishi has it :/?
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« Reply #470 on: August 14, 2008, 05:55:21 PM »

how about..
PMing him for his MSN?
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« Reply #471 on: August 14, 2008, 06:17:40 PM »

Yeah, send him a PM yo ^^,
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« Reply #472 on: August 14, 2008, 09:56:27 PM »

well okay, first of all, I"ll start off with my not-so-romantic problem. A guy keeps harassing me on mangabullet D: and worst of all, it was me that initiated it. :I But it's not like I just want to tell him to stop, because I still want to be friends... so I need a tactful way to handle the situation. >.> I'm pretty sure that one I can deal with on my own.
(btw he is a gay crossdresser and we have strange ukeXuke conversations....)

Actually, I learned how to deal with those folk from a wise man who went through a very similar situation with a gay guy. (I know that you said that you can deal with him on your own; I'm just putting this here for conversation.) He said that he told they guy that he respected his choice, but he was interested in girls. The guy thanked him and said that was the most polite refusal he had heard.

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+1 for a PM. Ya never know. One thing always seems to lead to another ^_^.
1. PM for MSN.
2. MSN for meet up at "next-con"
3. ? ? ?!!

You're not stalking him, you're following your heart! ^_________^

lol. Looking back at AN (AnimeNorth), I hooked up with a girl for the weekend (as it was her first con). I know it was a number of months ago, but was quite enjoyable. No romance, of course, but I consider it good practice. (Orion- your advice was very helpful -considering meetings between myself and other girls as meetings, not dates... yet-). I also went to the beach about a month ago with about ~20 other people. Nothing less then awesome.
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« Reply #473 on: August 14, 2008, 10:32:15 PM »

ah, I see. *nodnod*
but... I am a girl and therefore don't mind? xD besides, it's all in jest. ^^ he's already mai waifu.... >__> It's just our conversations end up being epic, and that gets annoying sometimes, y'know? ;P
I appreciate your input though ^____^


mm okay. I will pm him... I wonder if he goes by the same name on the Otakon forums? :/ and if he even checks them... =___=;; I will do my best! (and hopefully not creep him out)

If I say something like "Hey! I was that one Garlock cosplayer who was with the Nia. ^^ I talked to you in the Artist Alley for a bit on Sunday. I was wondering if we could share msn/im addresses?" do you think that sounds normal? Or am I being a total creeper? xD I've talked to him lots irl but I doubt he remembers me...

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You're not stalking him, you're following your heart! ^_________^
following my heart? xD haw haw. that's a good one....
but hey, if you think so~! ;3

*goes to do more stalking*

thank goodness for msn....
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« Reply #474 on: August 15, 2008, 12:54:11 AM »

Sounds perfectly normal to me. You could also throw that you've talked with him at a few cons and that he seems like a cool person, because if it you make it seem like you just saw him at one con and want his MSN, then it's a little creepy.

By and large, though, I don't think guys are super-restrictive with their MSN/AIM. Nor do they often pass up the opportunity to talk with girls. At least the ones I know.
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« Reply #475 on: August 15, 2008, 12:57:15 AM »

By and large, though, I don't think guys are super-restrictive with their MSN/AIM. Nor do they often pass up the opportunity to talk with girls. At least the ones I know.

No doubt about that!
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« Reply #476 on: August 15, 2008, 01:11:17 AM »

but... I am a girl and therefore don't mind? xD
SO?
it just makes things more powerful!
tell him just that! that you respect his choice, but interested in girls xD
and good luck in your stalkings!
and yea, I doubt he would refuse talking to a girl on MSN, especially a girl like you <3. Unless you go mental on him xP


ooh btw, there's a convention at the 21st, I'm tempted to go x3
um called Gak-Kon (not fully sure I know what it means)
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« Reply #477 on: August 15, 2008, 01:34:09 AM »

Sounds fine to me, go for it Alice. Tongue

Wouldnt it be funny if he was a lurking member here on anco? ;P

Haha sorry, I wont scare you. Smiley
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« Reply #478 on: August 15, 2008, 03:21:54 AM »

I know this isn't norm for other cultures, but in my family, cousins, close friends, and culturally alike acquaintances, it's either me or them that asks...

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Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Of course we don't say boyfriend/girlfriend, but either/or depending on the situation, otherwise it'd be just WEIRD Tongue.

If AT ALL you get a chance to actually meet him, MSN him and the such, be sure to pop the question RANDOMLY in a conversation, preferrably during one of those "What's your favorite color, OMG WHAT YOUR PIZZA MAN?" chats where you're like exchanging random tidbits about each other =P.

Just remember some things....

1) Don't even TRY to make it serious, unless he initiates the seriousness Tongue. Always go light and JOKING to prevent any signs of attraction, since you're still in the DARK about this guy's relations!

2) Pop it in randomly, as said above. Mostly during those Q&A sessions =P.

3) If he gets suspicious, just say "I ask that to everyone!" or "I'm just curious!". If using IM, please accompany these statements with smiling emotes to emphasize the believability, and NO ELLIPSIS! If speaking like on Skype, be sure to sound joking about it, such as saying "I'm just curious, silly!". Of course it depends on the situation Tongue.

4) If he asks about you, go ahead and be natural about it, don't go jumping in, just act like it was another tidbit Smiley.


Asking this simple question may prevent you from a Kaorin freakout later on when you discover... *whoops*



Then again, I'm just speaking from experience is all =P
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« Reply #479 on: August 15, 2008, 03:54:00 AM »

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Sounds perfectly normal to me. You could also throw that you've talked with him at a few cons and that he seems like a cool person, because if it you make it seem like you just saw him at one con and want his MSN, then it's a little creepy.

By and large, though, I don't think guys are super-restrictive with their MSN/AIM. Nor do they often pass up the opportunity to talk with girls. At least the ones I know.

*nodnod* okay! I understand~ ( o'w')o *excited*


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Sounds fine to me, go for it Alice. Tongue

Wouldnt it be funny if he was a lurking member here on anco? ;P

Haha sorry, I wont scare you

omg that would be like the best thing ever xD
A guy did come up to me and tell me he'd seen my picture on the internet though. O____o For Serious. I was just like "well, that's kewl :D" and then he asked me if I pronounced Simon's name as "Shimon" or "Saimon." :/ I said Shimon when I'm around other fans, but the more englishy pronunciation when I'm just with my sister, because it's easier to say. I was sucking down water at the time, so I must've looked like an idiot xD For a minute I suspected him for an AnCo lurker.... because where else would my picture have been? (besides LJ...)

sorry, now I'm rambling... xD

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and yea, I doubt he would refuse talking to a girl on MSN, especially a girl like you <3. Unless you go mental on him xP

aww thanks <3 now you're just trying to make me blush~ *slaps back*


I'm sorry... but my OCD is making me want to quote the post above me ;A;
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If AT ALL you get a chance to actually meet him, MSN him and the such, be sure to pop the question RANDOMLY in a conversation, preferrably during one of those "What's your favorite color, OMG WHAT YOUR PIZZA MAN?" chats where you're like exchanging random tidbits about each other =P.

Just remember some things....

1) Don't even TRY to make it serious, unless he initiates the seriousness Tongue. Always go light and JOKING to prevent any signs of attraction, since you're still in the DARK about this guy's relations!

2) Pop it in randomly, as said above. Mostly during those Q&A sessions =P.

3) If he gets suspicious, just say "I ask that to everyone!" or "I'm just curious!". If using IM, please accompany these statements with smiling emotes to emphasize the believability, and NO ELLIPSIS! If speaking like on Skype, be sure to sound joking about it, such as saying "I'm just curious, silly!". Of course it depends on the situation Tongue.

4) If he asks about you, go ahead and be natural about it, don't go jumping in, just act like it was another tidbit Smiley.


Asking this simple question may prevent you from a Kaorin freakout later on when you discover... *whoops*



Then again, I'm just speaking from experience is all =P

mmm right! >w>

1) of course! okay! I definitely wouldn't be too serious! :3 believe me, i would keep it as friendly as possible, so that wouldn't be a problem, I think... :/

2) right! *nod*

3) hehe okay ^^ If you haven't noticed, I use emoticons like crazy... xD I don't think I could go a sentence without using one ;P

4) right! casual is the way to go!

heehee okay ^^

I can't believe I like a guy again... >___>;
I doubt I've ever mentioned this, but the first (and only) time I ever confessed to a guy I was turned down quite harshly. >____> //// Since then my normal policy with men is that I don't fall for the 3D kind... xD
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